Your Friends are YOU.

I tend to place great importance in my friendships in fact  I could say that friends might easily be the most important thing in my life right now. Although I'm flighty and don't speak to all of them constantly I'm incredibly loyal and deeply love each and every one of them even my acquaintances.

However I've been wondering which aspect of your psyche do the friends in your life embody think about it, every single one of your friends embodies a trait which you either posses yourself or would like to possess, and seeing as your ideal self is just another variation of you we can confidently say that your friends are really just a mirror of your current psyche if, If you were to put all your friends in a room and have them interact with one another you'd basically just be watching aspects of your psyche interacting with each other. Which is one of the reasons my best friend enjoys hosting dinner parties, I feel like if you chose your most radical friends and had a meal with them that would be an incredible act of self discovery. 

Which is why the more self aware you are, and you know who you want to be, the right friends will just manifest into your life. So don't be a slave to your circumstance develop a clear mental image of who you want to be, the type of friends you want to have and start being that person TODAY by embodying the traits you want (Fake it till you make it folks), it's that simple. 

Make sure you're aware enough to notice when one of these gems manifest into your life and treasure them, your interpersonal relationships truly are what life is about in the end. It is afterall one of the top five regrets of the dying

As always I'm keen to hear what you have to say, so comment and tell me what you think.