If I could describe being an ENFP in one sentence, I would have to say "one living, breathing, walking, paradox." Anyone who knows me at all, know's that I live pretty much with my head in the clouds, even when people are interacting with me. It's not because I (or rather we because I know there are those who can relate), but yes it's not because we're not in the present moment, it's because we're being bombarded with soo many little things, maybe even things about you that it's easier to just kind of float away and feel my way through things.
If you feel like we're ignoring what you're saying we're not, we're probably noticing other little things about you and just taking in life because life is pretty grand, just poke us and remind us of your presence in our current reality and you'll find we're actually very engaging, warm and extremely verbose.
We feel uncomfortable in a room full of strangers yet meeting and understanding a stranger makes us happier than most other things can, we'll probably talk about you for the rest of that day and have a little "high" because we seek out and treasure that which is novel, but we still care deeply about all our current and old friends. One day I'm vehemently proclaiming Beethoven as the only thing worth listening to and the next I'm saying Nicki Minaj is an extremely talented and tragically misunderstood artist. I'll say that sex is a precious and deeply meaningful act yet I would probably engage in an orgy if I felt the people present were trustworthy and valued. I take time to deeply think about things but I have no opinion on most pertinent issues in the world unless someone enticed me to read up on it.
So please don't be offended if we're in the clouds again, just bring us back we won't mind and we'll greatly appreciate that you did, just be prepared to be fascinated.
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